Showing posts with label Thoughts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Thoughts. Show all posts

Sunday, August 11, 2013

Numbers and Money

My favorite saying is "a statistician drowned in a river with the average depth of 2 cm." Many people don't get it, but I use this in different situations, asking somebody to look at things from a different angle, or just not to take numbers or statistics too seriously. Anyhow, for reference, here are some numbers.

We visited 33 countries. One might argue rightly that I artificially inflated the number by including Tibet, Hong Kong and Macau, who some might consider part of China; Lesotho, which we visited on a day trip; France, where we spent a night in a motel across the Swiss border; Vatican, a tiny republic inside Rome; Saudi Arabia, where we only stayed 10 hours in the airport and it even includes Romania and United States (our home bases). I added all these places because they have different histories, cultures, currencies and/or borders and passport stamps. Even briefly, each experience was a special lesson for us. I think that the country model is way overrated, but unfortunately this is what we have in today's world.
North Camp of Mount Everest. China or Tibet?



Even by the most conservative count we went to Japan, China, Nepal, India, Cambodia, Thailand, Indonesia, Singapore, Malaysia, New Zealand, Australia, South Africa, Madagascar, United Arab Emirates, Great Britain, Austria, Czech Republic, Germany, Spain, Greece, Italy, Switzerland, Egypt, Turkey. We touched down on three continents for the first time in this life. We even went to the eighth continent and to what (some say) is left of Atlantis...
Airports - does anybody love them more?

We flew a lot. Many times because it was the only available option, sometimes for convenience, like in Madagascar, sometimes because it was the cheapest option, like in Greece, Italy or some places in Asia. We forfeited five flights with AirAsia, lost $630, but we didn't see it like that. We adjusted our schedule prolonging the vacations at Bottle Beach and in Bali. Overall we flew 48 times (50 for the girls), covering 123,549 km/76,770 mi (136,278 km/84,679mi for the girls, since they went for 10 days to the States in August). We payed $35,316 for plane tickets. I came a little over my initial budget, but a couple hundreds less than what Airtrecks, a round-the-world ticket consolidator, asked from us for one third of the flights mentioned above! This was the make or brake part of our budget. Interesting, if someone is flexible about her destinations, she can tour the world for much much less. For the distance that we covered and the number of flights we took nobody can do better than we did. I did the math, we payed 5.5 cents/km/per person (8.8 cents per mile). Double this figure if you plan your own trip, triple the figures if you buy tickets from some travel agency.
Renting a car can be cost effective for a traveling family

We used other means of transportation of course. I kept track of the meaningful day trips or travel between different areas by train, boat, bus, van or car. What we learned is that one meter, the international measure of distance, feels different on a road in Nepal or Madagascar compared to a highway in South Africa or Australia. And traveling by high speed train with 300 km/hour in China or in Italy is way different than going in zig-zag by boat on the Tsiribihina river. It is not fair to lump it all together, but anyhow the total number is 81 road trips. Some were two hours long, some were weeks in a row, like the car we rented for South Africa. Excluding the distance travelled by bus, taxi or subway within particular cities we still reached 40,000 km (25,000 miles) on the ground matching the circumference of the Earth at the Equator! I did the math, we payed 11 cents/km/per person (18 cents per mile).

We slept in 130 different beds. Most in hotels, a lot in rented apartments and at the end in Europe and especially in Romania we stayed for free with friends and family. Except for a handful of occasions we had 5 beds, and especially that 5th one added a lot to the total cost. Overall we payed $15.5 per night per person. That is not bad at all, is it? I did a little accounting trick though. Whenever we payed for something, a boat, a train or a plane, I counted that for transportation with the cost of the night at zero. We payed a lot for the cruise on the Nile or a boat on Tsiribihina river but I didn't include any of that for accommodation. In one way or another I marked 78 nights at zero and that changes the cost of a bed for us at $18.65 per person per night. We spent 7 nights in tents and 12 in chairs. That was not funny, believe me.
We rented apartments by the day in South Africa and so the food cost was negligible

The cost of food was partially affected by our accommodations. We payed very little or nothing in Romania where our families fed us. In many hotels we had free breakfast, where we had apartments we bought our food and cooked for ourselves. A more expensive apartment decreased the cost of food and a very cheap hotel meant eating at restaurants and spending more. The total came to $5.80 per person per day. How much do you spend at home? So many of my friends in the States who could "never" afford such a trip spend more than that for a latte and a panini, everyday! There is no bottle of wine that you could buy for this amount. Can you get a Big Mac meal in your country for less than $6? (In Switzerland it costs $14!)

This amount is not entirely true. If I subtract the days when we stayed with friends or family and assume that they also fed us for free, and also account for some of the free hotel breakfasts then we probably spent $7 per person per day for food. Is it a deal breaker?

This trip included a lot of additional expenses, and some of them were mandatory. We had to pay visas, several other fees and I included the immunizations that we had in Nepal and Thailand. The total of $4,235, could have been easily erased by going only to countries with no fees or visas like Malaysia, Australia, New Zealand or all of Europe. Yes, it was an optional expense...
One year ago, on my birthday, at the end of Africa. Visas were expensive but it didn't matter in the end.

We spend just a little more than that for all the miscellaneous occasional things that one could imagine. All the shopping, mail, Internet, replacement of broken iPods or stollen shoes, donations to beggars or charities or hair cuts came all to a little over $4,000 - that is not bad for five people on the road for 15 months, is it?
Included expense - trip preparation - a few books

And that brings me to the big chunk of "optional" expense that a trip like this entails. Amusements including all the museum or temple tickets, the fun rides, the guides, the cruises and so on. We spent a lot here, a little more than what we spent for food for our stomachs, this was the food for our souls. Examples include the Vienna or Sydney Operas, the helicopter ride in Hawaii, the scuba diving school, a trip to Lesotho, whale watching, and at least a hundred more things. We saved sometimes by skipping something outrageously expensive, like most activities in New Zealand, a National Park in Madagascar and the mummy rooms in Cairo. Generally speaking, we don't regret what we missed and don't regret most of what we did. Going over every blogpost from our trip you'd find where the money went.
Spending her 17th birthday at Taj Mahal, cheaper than the typical birthday party, still memorable.

You now have all the information you need to find out the cost of our trip. It was cheaper than I expected and we did it in the more expensive way. If you want to travel for a year with your partner and circle the world you should be able to do it for $40,000. Some young people do it for much less. If you have two little children you should add another $10,000. If you live in the first world and have a little more than primary education you probably can afford this. So why are you still home?


The Golden Pagoda in Kyoto, the first week of our trip.  Let's start over...




Wednesday, January 23, 2013

We Did It


We did it or we made it. However you want to put it we went around the world and we are back home in five whole pieces. We left Bucharest on Sunday afternoon, in the end of January. A short flight to Vienna, a change of planes to Berlin. A little adventure, I booked a hotel at the wrong airport, I realized at the last moment thanks to Ina. Overnight in Berlin, a short encounter with our friend in the hallway of the airport and we got on our last flight. At JFK we got a car and drove a couple of hours toward our house. We left the children to spend the night with a friend in New Jersey and we spend the last night in a hotel. Tuesday morning we drove a few more hours, stopped at Sam's club and Aldi for groceries. We spent $500 on supplies, for the first time in ages we didn't have to calculate how much we needed to buy, we just got everything that we could think of to resupply our pantry and fill our fridge. In the afternoon, we did the last few miles toward our house. It was epic. Unplanned, Louis Armstrong started to sing on the car stereo "What a Wonderful World". We did the last few miles singing and naming all the landmarks that we've learned so well on our way home. When we entered the house there was a lot of screaming and jumping. It took a few minutes of going through the house to recognize our home. In the evening friends joined us for pizza and champagne. It was epic. We did it, or we made it, however you want to put it, we went around the world!
At the airport in Berlin, AirBerlin carousel 



Hotel Bärlin in Berlin, just a big cheap room and one short night

Winter in Berlin from the hotel

This is our hotel 50 years ago behind JFK's limousine

Berlin Airport, last flight, last signage for New York

On arrival at JFK the welcome sign has Romanian as the top language!
Nice touch - thank you!

Done, we're in. No more passports necessary.

Above our rented car, the rest area has a sign to welcome us to New York State

Home. The planning board stayed just as it was 465 days ago.

Our friends left their map, flowers and another welcome back sign! Thank you!

It all started a long time ago with the thought that if others could do this, we can do it as well. Later it evolved into a strange feeling that we have to do it, we owe it to ourselves and to our children. By the time we left we felt that it is not such a big deal and any family who wants it can go around the world with their children.  More than a year later, as we approached the end of our trip we realized that what we were doing was extraordinary. Extraordinary as in out of the ordinary but also exceptional.

Is not just about numbers. We visited so many places and we walked so many miles. It's the incredible fact that we planned for the best case scenario and we made it happen. We were prepared for the possibility that we might not last this long, but we hit all our targets and we did everything we dreamed of in a special way. With the exception of Cape Town, we reached all our destinations at the best possible time of the year and in all cases at the best time of the day!!!  The only place that was on our list and we did not go to is Petra, in Jordan. We were close, in November in Sinai and we peacefully decided against it. The financials and the political situation were against it and we had to leave something for another time. As we were approaching the end of the trip we were exhausted. Maybe not that much physical exhaustion, maybe a mental one. Simply listing the places that we've seen would make somebody space out. Most of our families and friends lost track of us at one point or another and some of them got exhausted by just following us on the map. Once I caught a very close relative who had no idea on what continent we were and I'm sure he's just the unlucky one.

I would not advice anybody to try what we did. Do your own thing and follow your own interests. Definitely fly less and visit fewer destinations for a shorter or a much longer period. Our pace and our rhythm was exceptional and looking back I can argue that is not possible to do what we did. The only counter argument is that we did it.  There is a small club of families who travelled the world and probably a few that are doing it right now. What they did seemed simple when I read about it and now I know how special they are. Maybe we did travel longer, spent more, seen more, or maybe not, it does not matter. They are all extraordinary. As you plan and execute your own trip, what you'll do will also become extraordinary.

Did we see too much? I don't think so. We had this one chance and we made the most of it. We could have gone slower and shorten our list of destinations, we could have stayed for a shorter time. We have good reasons for why we did what we did. Like I said, we didn't start by planning to do something great, it just happened. We are the main beneficiaries, so there is no point in bragging about it. We were lucky, we were smart and we were well prepared. We never fought or argued, never questioned ourselves and never worried. We stayed healthy. Ioan had a cold every other day, but he took it in stride and never complained. The rest of us fared much better. On my part, the last day that I was under the weather was in Lhasa in November 2011. Ileana Ruxandra had a serious cold in Xi'an, we had to go to the hospital, the girls had some occasional colds but we never had something serious. Our stuff held on. In the last few weeks we had more and more problems with the cameras. In Madagascar, Maria's shoes were stollen. Besides this, and a lot of holes in the T-shirts, everything else worked out really well.

On the list of our extraordinary accomplishments I could also put this blog. With more than 260 posts, half a million words and more than 6000 pictures it is much more than one can handle. Despite the clean interface and the easy navigation options, most readers cannot find their way around, they read a post or two and go by their business. It is in part by design. Blogs are for the moment, only the last post matters and it stays on top. To start at the beginning it's generally inconvenient and hard to navigate. There is a science behind building a successful blog. Not only that I didn't look for that, but I avoided the general recipes and kept a low profile, this is for us and for you. Even if most of our friends and family members didn't read most of what's here there are a few who did and we thank them profusely. But now it's over and after posting the last few summary articles of this trip, I am thinking of taking this down. It is too much information, too much private stuff, too many of our personal pictures. What should we do?

There are a lot websites dedicated to travel. There are a lot of bloggers who make a living from telling us how great travel is. Some of them are families and they keep repeating over and over how extraordinary traveling with your family is. How the children learn from the world, how they grow more confident, more social, more intelligent. How this thing is going to mark them for life and they will always be grateful for such an opportunity. The truth is that we will never know if this is going to make them better or it will give them better chances. We are smarter, better educated and we have proof that we had an amazing time. This is the message of this blog.


We will never do this again. We would do it again in a heartbeat, but we only had one chance, we didn't miss it and now we are moving to another phase of our life. It is hard for me to understand why I never thought of this until 2009. It is easy to have second thoughts about spending tons of money on houses, home improvements, decent cars, or else. I am not allowing myself to go there. Again, like I said, we had one chance and we took it. Maria turned 18 in December 2012, she is now an adult, has her own life and I will never be able to pay her enough to sacrifice another year of her life to hang out with us. Ileana, getting ready for her 16th birthday, is talking about going with her girlfriends to South America, after she turns 18. Or maybe Europe. Or maybe somewhere else, but she is not even thinking of inviting us. Ioan is only 13. Maybe we'll have another chance to spend time like this on the road, we had a little preview in our week in Scotland. Maybe.

We realized early in our travel that we live in the best place in the world. While we were gone, our little village got engaged in a campaign to be named the "America's Coolest Small Town"


In a recent web article on Yahoo!Travel they listed our region along nine other lakeside vacations that have it all. Even with us back, I am sure that it will remain a very nice place. Surprisingly or not, we didn't find any other place where we would like to move. So we'll stay here.

Home with Emma. No better place in this world.
Our friends asked when and where are we going next time. My answer is that we are never ever going to leave our house again. I never ever want to travel again. We will stay home. I repeat this all the time, maybe I will believe it. But the other day at lunch we talked about a possible trip to Mars in 2018. For those who don't know me, I never joke about these things. Ask my wife and my children.

Friday, November 30, 2012

Kali mera Elada!


Present time (November 30th, 2012):

Duty— You should have written every day!
The writer— I couldn’t, the writing would have been dry, just a bunch of facts, what we did, like a check-off list, no one would have been interested.
The child— Can we play now?
Duty— Now you have to write after almost two months; what would you remember now?
The writer—I’ll write, just leave me alone, don’t carry me to all these new places, give me some time!
The child—I want a roiboos tea!
Duty—We don’t have time! And plus, these new places have to be seen, they are a must, remember that you always wanted to see them!
The writer—OK, let’s see them, but then I won’t write!
The child—And I want to watch a movie!
Duty— You have to write! People are waiting for your blogs!
The writer— Are you kidding me? They live their lives, we’re just entertainment for them, if there is no blog to be read, they just go and find something else!
The child—Look at me! Look at me!
Duty—Then write for us!
The writer—I need peace, and time! Leave me alone, to find my muse, to process those feelings, to make them less personal, to bring a unified image of how it was there, and not the whole material. It was one thing to present Asia, where it was a first contact with a different culture, and another to show Europe. I grew up here, I can tell details, but then I have to explain them, and you don’t give me time!
The child—Ding-dong, ding-dong, ding-dong! Let’s escape!
Duty and the writer—WE CAN’T! WE HAVE TO WRITE THE BLOG!

Two months ago and forward.

Kali mera, Elada! (kah-lee mair-ah) Good morning, Greece!





A three men orchestra plays a Greek tune as we pick up our luggage and file out of airport. I think it’s a nice gesture, like real orchids in Singapore, having live songs in Mykonos; for sure I will remember this airport. Outside, sunshine, not a cloud in the sky, maybe a little bit of wind. Anna, the owner of Evangelia’s Place (named after her mother), shakes my hand, then leans in and kisses me on both my cheeks. She does this with each and one of us, while saying our names. We pile in her car and she starts talking while she gives us a tour of the island: this is the supermarket, next to it there’s a bread shop where they have very good bread, the pharmacy. Houses, all white and covered in bougainville, have rounded corners and a personal little church.

Tiny church with the Greek flag.


In Mykonos first they build the church, and after, the house. The priest follows a schedule to see whose house does the morning or evening service. At the bus stop Anna brakes, looking at the sign that announces the schedule (a blackboard under the shade of a tree), and tells us when we can expect the bus to ride in or out of town.

Street commerce


We talk about the crisis and the strikes. “It’s not that people are not working—they work, and hard, but the system is bad.” Then we arrive at her place, large terra-cotta jars with geraniums or a different type of “hen and chickens”, olive trees and other kinds.



It’s Mom’s birthday and we wanted to be together. Their hotel is literally across the road, with a beautiful view of the sea and an infinite pool. To reach their room we have to climb down and then up a maze of stairs, between palm gardens, and private room yards.



We have a late-lunch/early-dinner meal, watching the sun setting in the sky and eating moussaka and lamb chops with rosemary. Happy birthday Mom and Grandma Tana! On the table there is a vase with flowering basil. It is peaceful and quiet, we’re the only ones in the restaurant, we’re on vacation. When we met with the parents in London, they watched the movie and Mom said “I know what I want for my birthday!” Two weeks is not long enough to work on this kind of project, especially when you have to visit four more capitals, but the girls pulled all the stops and translated the movie in Romanian, recorded a new audio and made it fit on the English cues. The grandparents had a blast, laughing almost continuously and enjoying the commentaries. (In the meantime they started showing it to anyone who manifested a little bit of interest and they haven’t stopped yet! You can see it to if you have 25 minutes  here)



Even if this is vacation time, we can’t pass Delos. It used to be the place to dedicate a temple to one god or another, to bring a prayer and a sacrifice. People used to live here, there are many houses to prove that, but because of a prophecy, the rulers of Athens gave an edict forbidding people to be born or die on the island.



Now, all I can see are just blinding white stones and ruins under the unmerciful sun. We make our way toward Zeus temple at the tippy-top on slippery steps, shined by the peregrines and hordes of tourists. There is no shade, we’re crawling hot and red faced next to a stone wall or a scruffy bush, to find some relief.



Ioan is looking for life forms, but just the lizards are obliging, anything else is hiding from the sun. From the top I look around: sea and other islands. For a moment I try to feel that disappointment, lived by people marauded on an island, but I can’t, I know I have a boat to take me away.



Back on Mykonos we try to retrace our steps and end up going other white and blue streets, squished between stores, bougainvillea and shade canvases. We admire the windmills, the restaurants, with numbered tables and Van Gogh’s chairs (very uncomfortable), the people who chose to sit, drink coffee and watch people passing by. At our place we find out that it was a general strike, and we laugh, Athens is so far away, the struggle on the continent doesn’t impose on the islanders, who earn their life in tourism.





And then... shame! Disgrace! I find a crawling insect on my shirt, that looks very similar with one that I saw in Spain, while I was sewing! It is a louse! Fortunately the internet is working and I can read online what I am suppose to do and what to buy. We all do the treatment, greasing the hair and combing it with that superfine comb, spraying the whole body with the medicine. I am the only one that finds a dead insect body and that is a relief. Then I have to wash and hope that whatever creepy-crawly are on our clothes, they will die in 104 degrees water with detergent (it should be 140 F for washing or 250 F for drying at least half an hour) . I would have expected to pick up a bug in other countries, less developed, but not in old Europe!

The vacation is over, we’re back in our exploring and learning mode. A slow ferry takes us to the island of Syros, the capital of the Cyclades Islands. We arrive on a Sunday afternoon and after the commotion from the ferry, the town seems deserted. The streets are empty, the stores are closed, houses with shuttered windows, an occasional car. From the second story of a house an old lady throws in the street  leftovers from the Sunday’s lunch to the alley cats.

Fearless cats, not flinching in front of a car, eating on marbled street.


This town has names for the streets (really a rare thing) and makes our life easier as we’re walking with our backpacks toward the hotel. We pass a church, that later we find out that it has an icon (religious painting) by El Greco, when he was still only Domenikos Theotokopoulos. We walk up a stepped street, and another, to “Paradise, Rooms to Let”. There is an old man at the reception waiting for us, he doesn’t speak much English, but he understands. He gives us our keys and then, closes the office and disappears.

Agora or the largest flat place in a Greek town.


We take the shortest route to a restaurant where we order the most wonderful meal that we can think of: pita-gyros (peetah). On a flat bread they spread tzatziki (a sauce made from yogurt, garlic, cucumber and sometimes dill), sliced tomatoes, onions, shredded lettuce, french fries and shaves of grilled meat (pork for us), wrapped in a wax paper. As we will find out later, this is the best: pita freshly made, crispy on the outside, hot and chewy on the inside, tzatziki with just a zing of garlic, not too salty, not too runny, plenty of meat, sweet tomatoes ripened on the live vine in the sun. Add to this two sail ships bobbing gracefully with each wave and a setting sun and maybe you will understand why this is and will be the best pita gyros ever.




Later we walk the streets, buy baklavalaki (small baklavas) made with walnuts and saraigli (rounded ones) with pistachios, all drenched in sticky syrup, but still crunchy. Too sweet for Ileana and happily we eat her share.

The many kinds of cake in a sweets shop.


Next morning the town is unrecognizable, so many people, cars wheeze by on the marbled streets, restaurants open where locals and tourist alike drink coffee and nibble a pastry. We board a new ferry, for Santorini this time.



Many like to think that this was the famous Atlantis, but there is no proof. My mind fills in the gaps as we approach the island and I can “see” the huge cone. The island in reality is of a crescent shape with some young islands that hiss steam periodically in the middle. As we enter the submerged cone of the volcano I look at the forbidding cliffs, capped with multicolored houses, terraced for a better view. They used to be all white with blue shutters, a form of resistance and nationalism in a time of Ottoman occupation. The whole island was just a huge flag.





We pass cruise ships, anchored close to the old port, the one with the hundreds stairs and donkey- caravans to haul tourists up, featured in “The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants” (nowadays they have a small six cabin gondola, but it takes only 36 people at a time, insignificant for a cruise).

Very, very smelly creatures!


We dock in the new port where the hotel’s car awaits. The road zig-zags the cliff and after many hairpin turns we drive on the flat top toward Fira (feerah), the main town. We pass “Señor Zorba” a Mexican hotel and restaurant. We smile, there is a little bit of truth, Nikos Kazantzakis Greek hero was brought alive by Anthony Quinn, of Mexican descent. Our hotel has, besides narrow stairs going up and down, sideways and round, a pool and domed rooms, with arched windows and interior shutters. There is even a walled cupboard, like a medicine cabinet. I look closely and find old nails sticking out and irregularities in the masonry. I can’t imagine how old is this room, hundreds of years?

But we don’t have time to muse, we have a sunset to catch. The bus leaves just as we enter the station, so we take a taxi, much better and quicker, to Sunset Point, on the right side of the crescent. Over the horizon a thick haze hides other islands and gives an orange hue to the light. We’re not there yet, the streets are narrow, the tourists are just rambling (they live there in Oia, they can see it as many times as they want), so we're trying to squeeze and run, only to hear “Slow down!” And when we get at the end of the island, we miss it, behind the haze. But the colors are good too, so we linger a little bit more, look at people and go back, along with the others and perusing the art galleries.



Fira is in the background as tiny light dots.




Back in Fira we have a museum to visit. Before erupting (somewhere between 1700 to 1300 BC, different museums post different dates), the volcano was kind enough to give plenty of signs so the majority of people could leave. They took their valuables and left everything else. Just a little part is excavated and exhibited and still is plenty: bird vessels, religious objects, board games, frescoes and the golden ibex, made from separate gold sheets and welded together. The archeological site is scheduled to re-open, but no one knows when. It’s mind-numbing to think of the efforts that go in finding things, extracting them, cleaning, restoring, understanding, preserving and if they are significant enough, exhibiting them in a museum, under 24 hours surveillance.

Different types of bird vessels.

Bird vessel with swallow.

Offering table with dolphins.



Before leaving we buy Santorini pistachio, it’s supposed to be different. We don’t have the “others” to compare, but the shell has a pink rim and the seed is tasty. Also we try homemade wine “vino santo” (vee-noh sahn-toh), strong and sweet, almost like an ice-wine. It is made from the unwatered grapes, like all the plants that grow here, their necessity of water taken from the dew. Then we board our next ferry: Crete awaits us.



Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Thanksgiving


Of all the American feast days, Thanksgiving is closest to my heart. The first immigrants gathered with the Indians and gave thanks to God for helping them survive. Many times I thought it shouldn’t be just once a year, but then  I changed my mind; it is good to have an official day, in which one can think about all his or her gifts, received daily or in time. The words to come were written as I thought about them while we were traveling.

I give thanks to God; He helped us every moment.

I thank Mihai. He is the one who transformed an idea into reality. Step by step, innumerable hours, during the day and especially at night, he searched on the internet for the cheapest and most comfortable ways of transport. He read what others wrote and learned from their experiences. He found the ideal weather (you don’t want to be in India during monsoon time, when it rains for three months in a row) and made a schedule allowing us to travel with minimum clothes. He is the one who searched and found hotels and apartments, not only good, but cheap and close to the places we wanted to visit. He is the one who pushed us out of the house, when we wanted to sit and complain, saying there are still places to be visited, and in this way he enriched us.
Baobabs Avenue, Madagascar


I thank our children, for their serenity... for their way of accepting the obvious; there is no escape from visiting every temple, museum, market and rock. For the joy of doing different things. For their patience, waiting for us to finish taking all the pictures (and for their smiles as subjects). For welcoming us in their adolescent universe and for sharing their thoughts. Because without them the trip wouldn’t have been so marvelous and maybe it wouldn’t have happened at all.





I thank our friends, old and new, for being there for us.


With Rares, Dara, Ana and Doru, Japan

The "Going Anyway" family, Bali


Ina, Berlin


Cristina and Dan, Greece


Rodica and her family, Geneva
I thank those who donated. Besides money, we received also the joy that they were thinking of us and the possibility of trying new things.

I thank those who made our beds, changed our towels and cleaned our rooms.

I thank those who cooked our food and those who served it, even if we didn’t appreciate it at its true value.
Ali, Cambodia

Fort Cochi



I thank those who drove our cars, or our boats, or our tuk-tuks and showed us a little bit of their country.


Mr. Juned, India

The crew from Kerala

Phu, the man who helped us see the Details, Angkor Wat

Tsiribihina river, Madagascar



I thank those who were our guides.


Tsewang, Tibet

Martha, Australia

Thomas and Robert, South Africa

Jean Robert, Madagascar

Emanuel, Madagascar

Adrian, Lesotho


I thank those who taught me how to say “Hello”, “Thank you” and “Good bye” in their language, to sing, to paint, to dance, to cook.


Desak, Bali

I thank those who opened for me the gates to a different world.


Anna, Thailand


I thank the other travelers who gave our children the opportunity to mesmerize them with their adventures. To those who shared with us their favorite places and told us how to get there. To those who took our pictures.


Antananarivo, Madagascar

Milford Sound, New Zealand


I thank our families, who traveled the world to spend some time with us and share memories.


China

Catalunya

Greece


I thank the people who took care of the house, the mail, and helped us with running things smoothly.

I thank those who prayed for us, who kept us in their thoughts.

I thank those who made it possible for us to see what we saw. The ones who imagined, constructed, searched, who founded, who excavated, who restored, who exhibited, who guarded (and the list goes on) the monuments and the museums, and everything else.


From the cleaning crew, Cambodia

China


I thank those who pushed our buttons and helped us to see our limits. It is wonderful to overcome difficulties—you feel open and free. (I hope that the person who has Maria’s shoes enjoys them!)

I thank those who thought it was just a usual day at their work. For us it meant to leave and arrive on time, to catch the next transportation, to have a pleasant experience.

I thank those who cut our hair, carried our luggage or in a way or another touched our nomadic lives.


Nepal

India

Solid honey, China

China

Indonesia 

Bali

Dinah, Hawaii


I thank those who wrote to us. Your words brought the message that someone is reading what we are writing and they enjoy it.

I thank those who welcomed us in their communities, in their homes, shared their food and much more.


Kendrick's family, Singapore

Melbourne, Australia

Sydney, Australia

Alina, Austria

This is Mihaela's house and she had a collection of tea, Berlin

Isma and his mother, Catalunya

Federica, Italy

I thank you, those who are reading my words. Because when it was difficult to find them, the thought that you are waiting helped me to overcome my procrastination and write them down. For your understanding of my unorthodox English syntax and grammar, as I am still thinking and dreaming in Romanian, in spite of 14 years in the USA. Because thinking of you, made me feel less homesick.